I recently came across this (via etiquetteforagentleman.tumblr.com) and I could not disagree more. I may be the only one who feels this way, but the way I see it, the only way a person can be a better person than an attractive person is to be an attractive person who is also a stylish person. Got it?
Frankly, if I see an attractive person, I'm interested in him/her. That's all it takes. I don't care if you're a "good person." Or even an interesting person. I entertain myself enough to get through a conversation. The only purpose of the other person in a conversation is to make myself look good. Mainly because talking to no one seems to be an automatic red flag for some people. Also, because talking to an attractive person makes you look better.
Now onto style. One of the only things that can make me interested in someone else moreso than myself is if they're dressed nicely. Nice clothes get you in the door, but unique, fashionable, edgy clothes will get you in the bed (sorry for being crude...). Not only do good clothes make a person more attractive, they make a person more desirable all around. I'm waiting patiently for the day that I find my style match: someone who understands and challenges my style at the same time and would be willing to discuss my clothes, his/her clothes, other peoples' clothes, next year's clothes, vintage clothes, designer clothes, cheap clothes, celebrities' clothes, etc. Not only would this make a person more visually enticing, but we would actually have something to talk about.
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